Treat Yo’ Self! Outside of the Box Gifts for Yourself This Christmas!
There’s nothing that says in this era of our lives that we can’t take care of those around us while also taking care of ourselves. Getting caught up in the routines in our lives that ensure our loved ones, workspaces, and homes are all fully functional and operating at full capacity can often mean that we’ve put ourselves so far on a back burner that we’re convinced the stovetop must be in Narnia. Now, I know the idea of even considering gifts for yourself this holiday season is so far out of your purview that the suggestion alone might have you rolling your eyes. But hear me out . . . You deserve it! I truly believe that! So, while you obviously don’t have to get something on this list that I put together, I highly encourage you to get yourself something . . . big or small. Just please take that step for yourself.
Below is a gift guide of items that are stylish, edgy, and thoughtful, while still feeling mature and elevated. A few gifts that mix practicality, self-expression, and a little boho/rock vibe. Enjoy!
Home & Vibe Setters
Dark, moody candles
Warm, smoky, and sensual. This candle can turn any room into a slow-burn sanctuary.
Vinyl records
Rich sound, real texture. Vinyl records are a timeless way to feel your music again.
Record player
Spin your favorites anywhere, anytime with a vintage inspired record player.
Crystal or obsidian bookends
When raw crystal edges meet polished calm it’s gives functional art for your shelves.
Vintage barware or glass skull decanters
Vintage meets modern. This is sleek, moody barware that makes every pour feel intentional.
Beauty & Self-Care
Vampy all day lipstick
Nonstop Liquid Matte Lipstick in Rebel. Rich burgundy pigment meets a weightless matte finish for a fiesty and bold lip.
Tattoo aftercare
Perfect for tattoo after-care and just pain ol’ self-care. Vegan shea & coconut oils soothe your skin and let your ink stay vivid.
Black silk pillowcases
Satin Pillowcases for Hair and Skin. Silky black luxury to up your sheet game. Wake up with smoother skin and softer hair.
Gothic or alt nail wraps/gel kits
An edgy manicure made simple with skulls and cross-bones on your fingertips. DIY bold done right.
Style & Accessories
Chunky silver or black onyx jewelry
Raw power and elegance. The kind of pieces that whisper rebellion and grounding all at once.
Chunky silver or black onyx jewelry
Master industrial chic with bold, unapologetic pieces that look as good as the make you feel.
Doc Martens
Iconic, indestructible, and endlessly cool. Nothing says “main character energy” like than these babies.
Band tees
Worn-in band tees can be reworked into crop tops or dresses. For anyone who’s lived the lyrics, not just listened to them.
Vintage leather jacket
Real or faux a leather jacket is a forever piece. Supple, scarred, and full of stories, a second skin for when you don’t want to blend in.
Statement belts or studded chokers
With a grown-up edge (sleek, not Hot Topic-y) . . . think refined rebellion with grown-woman energy.
Alternative handbags
Culture, confidence, and creativity in one, because being “outside the box” is exactly the point.
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Books & Journals
Mystery, gothic lit, or witchy novels
And Then There Were None is a classic mystery. A slow-burn masterpiece for nights when you crave intrigue and quiet chaos.
Journals with celestial
Celestial charm meets shadowy whimsy which is perfect for journaling or writing down the life you’re manifesting.
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Coffee table books
Some ideas: tattoo art, punk fashion history, witchcraft guides, or vinyl culture
But if you like bold, beautiful, and timeless, Supreme Models is a coffee-table statement that celebrates Black brilliance, fashion, and feminine power.
Fun & Experience Gifts
Concert tickets
Always a win!
Loud, alive, and unforgettable, because some gifts for yourself are all about losing all inhibitions in the sound.
Record store
Or alt boutique visit.
For crate-digging souls who live for the hunt, vinyl, nostalgia, and that perfect needle drop is the perfect gift.
Tattoo/piercing shop
Permanent poetry for your skin! Whether it’s your family crest or a piece of garlic toast, you’ve earned every line of this new tattoo.
Abercrombie
Candle Making Class
Intention meets creativity when finding fun classes in your area. Candle making classes let you craft your own scent, pour your mood, and leave with something that burns beautifully.
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